Advice

I am in quite a few facebook groups. In one of the submissive groups, I have posted a few times with questions that I had. Today, out of the blue, I received an instant message from a lady that I do not know. I have never spoken with her, nor seen her post in the groups. She was worried that I was going to think she was crazy, but she felt like our situations were a lot alike, and that she was drawn to me. What she wanted advice about does not really matter. As I was sitting at lunch with Pappa, words were just flying out of my thumbs on the keyboard. He agreed with everything that I was telling her, I think I actually made him proud of me.

What makes me qualified to give out advice? Nothing. I really do not think I am qualified. All I am, is a small town girl, who learns something new every day. But, in learning, I am more than willing to share what I have learned with others. You will hear me time and time again state that when Pappa first told me that he was a Dominant, I had a scared look on my face because I didn’t really know what that meant. He said, research, do your research, then see if you think it is something you want to do. THAT is what I tell people when they ask me questions. I just use the knowledge that I have gained from my own research, from what I have seen and heard in the kink community, and what Pappa has taught me.

House of Eclipse is designed to build people up, share our knowledge of the BDSM world, and provide a safe place for those that might not otherwise have it. Please know that if you reach out to Pappa or I for any advice, it will stay between the three of us. Communication is key in all relationships. We are both honored that you have taken the time to read this and get to know us.

Words of Wisdom: Just remember, “To thine own self be true” and “Live, Love, Learn”!