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Day 6: How will you handle conflict in D/s?

This topic, when I read it, type it, think about it, I automatically think, handling conflict in a D/s relationship is no different than any other relationship. The #1 thing to remember…Respect! Respect what each other has to say.

Pappa and I both are far from perfect. We have had lots of disagreements so far, some not so proud of moments, and have shut down and walked away from each other just to cool off. Sometimes though, sometimes I think that we both get inside of our own heads and get so caught up in the moment, in the disagreement, that we don’t actually hear what the other person has to say. We are most certainly a work in progress. I get into the mindset of, “hey, i’m the submissive, i’m suppose to have all the power, why aren’t you listening to me?”. TOTALLY wrong place for my mind to be. In the moment, I do not mean it like that. But looking back now, that is how it looked. When we are “in the moment” of a conflict, the way Pappa talks to me comes across as if he is saying, “I’m the Dominant, you gave me all the power, now you have to listen and do what I say, I am right.” Both things are so very far from the truth.

So, how do WE handle it? We both know that we are not always going to agree on everything. We know that we are both going to have to make compromises. We totally trust in, believe in, and love each other, to no end. We will do whatever it takes to get through each conflict, to come out to the other side, together.

Live, Love, Learn ❤

Loving BDSM 30 Days of D/s
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